IS IT OF ANY VALUE CRITICIZING THE DECEASED PERSON?

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We all know that once somebody is dead, he/she is already dead. There is nothing much we can do to change the fact that the person has stopped breathing and has disappeared from physical eyes. There’s nothing we can do about it however good or bad the person was, to either bring the person back to life or even put him or her in our places of expectations, “heaven” or “hell” as the religious books term it.

However, as a matter of facts accepting death or the loss of someone once we loved is a very hard path to take, it requires a strong will to move on and continue with life. But as wise men would say, contemplating death is way scarier than death itself.

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“No matter how prepared you think you are for the death of a loved one, it still comes as a shock, and it still hurts very deeply.” – Billy Graham

Compare this quote to the number of death rates you have encountered so far in this course of life. Each of us has our journeys marked out before us and no matter what we do, destiny will lead us there one. The way of signing out of the world may not matter, as you can see some die in hospitals over chronicle illnesses, others in their sleep, some poisoned, while others accidents and many others. “Death never takes a wise man by surprise; he is always ready to go.” – Jean de la Fontaine This then calls for our preparation during the course of our lives on earth. The legacy that we leave behind when we are gone can either point us to be heroes or losers. One of the speakers once said, “I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life.” – Corazon Aquino

Here we are with one of the most recent death news of one of the influential persons in Uganda, Pastor Agustine Yiga Abizaayo, who is said to have breathed his breathe on 26th of October, 2020

A number of criticisms have come up following his death, especially from his fellow pastors, most of which are negative. The majority are focusing on the bad side, with claims of advising the family members, the church leaders and at most the deceased’s son not to take his father’s steps.

At this point, I believe these are brothers in Christ who are meant to comfort one another knowing that it is one body, when the head is affected the entire body will be affected because the pain runs throughout whole the body. It is actually a great shame to see members of one body/ brothers in the body Christ attacking one another and yet they claim to be believing in one God. A normal family wouldn’t expose their weaknesses to strangers, because by exposing their weaknesses, the enemy can easily conquer them.

It would have been better if they corrected him when he was still a live. Criticizing him when he is already dead will not hep him neither will it change anything. He is dead and gone, just send condolence to the family, comfort them for that is what they need most right now. Send in the advise later when their pain has reduced.